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Males are pretty much expected to "blow off their steam" i.e. channel their aggressiveness into positive activities and interactions. Since females are less aggressive than males on average and people are often socialized in gender-specific ways, there is less opportunity for this socialization effect to become established in females. Hence, an aggressive female will be expected to be more threatening or less productive than an equally aggressive male.

Aggression also turns into, in some cases, physical violence... true, there are some Battered Men's Shelters but men are more likely to beat up a woman than the reverse. so, I wouldn't see why you would want an aggressive man over an aggressive woman other than the fact that its a norm that people have gotten used to, men being aggressive. and we really shouldn't get used to aggressive behavior in anyone because that just leads to not doing anything about a situation that could be potentially harmful.

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What if "leadership skills" (which perhaps means more aggressive behavior) in females is correlated to other, unpleasant traits, whereas in men it's not? That might explain part of the "Heidi" effect.

.....and I would opt for the more Freudian explanation (although I have very little time for Sigmund in general) that we feel more threatened by assertiveness coming from a female than from a male.

Males are pretty much expected to "blow off their steam" i.e. channel their aggressiveness into positive activities and interactions. Since females are less aggressive than males on average and people are often socialized in gender-specific ways, there is less opportunity for this socialization effect to become established in females. Hence, an aggressive female will be expected to be more threatening or less productive than an equally aggressive male.

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