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juliawise's avatar

I don't think the dichotomy between "wanting to help" and "wanting to seem or feel helpful" is so firm as it's presented here.  I want both things, and while I think my first responsibility is to actually help, I also recognize that I'm more likely to do it consistently if I make it rewarding for myself in some way.  One way I do that is by socializing with other people who think effective giving is admirable.  There's nothing wrong with that.

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RobinHanson's avatar

See my added to the post.

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